Most people think a secure person would simply ignore breadcrumbing, or walk away without a second thought, right? But there’s a little-known twist: Secure people actually use breadcrumbing as a mirror.  Instead of reacting emotionally or walking away immediately, they let the breadcrumbing reveal the other person’s patterns—not to playContinue Reading

Avoidants will always use the same three tests before they let you in emotionally.  And no, it’s not the usual stuff like pulling away or ghosting. These are tests happening right under your nose, and if you’re not careful, you’ll miss them completely.  Once you understand what they are, everythingContinue Reading